tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10539912.post2726210112392851533..comments2024-03-09T20:09:10.016-05:00Comments on Heartcrossings: Clean BreakHeartcrossingshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/11611681863892546438noreply@blogger.comBlogger4125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10539912.post-83334166247217000422010-05-22T15:40:10.125-04:002010-05-22T15:40:10.125-04:00If I were wife of L' ex, I would prefer not to...If I were wife of L' ex, I would prefer not to know about the kids. The presence of kids does not impacts her life and would probably not impact in future. So why take away the peace of mind she has.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10539912.post-31391355476377359242010-04-06T20:08:22.524-04:002010-04-06T20:08:22.524-04:00silcador - So true about needing courage and dispa...silcador - So true about needing courage and dispassion to do right. <br /><br />Chevalier - Unfortunately, L's ex is certain to cause trouble if she intervened directly or indirectly in this case. Her desire to do right by a stranger will need to prove much stronger than her desire to have peace in her own life. It's a tough call.Heartcrossingshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11611681863892546438noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10539912.post-27842508439533823082010-04-04T19:40:13.557-04:002010-04-04T19:40:13.557-04:00Unless L is afraid of some direct or indirect nega...Unless L is afraid of some direct or indirect negative consequences (e.g. if her ex may be abusive or vengeful, etc.), I'd recommend telling her.<br /><br />Maybe L should make sure that she has plausible deniability, Dick-Cheney-style. <br /><br />What goes around, comes around, right? And I'm pretty sure most of us in the new wife's position would rather know than not.A Ghttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04060692142269517078noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10539912.post-10936500744492878192010-04-04T15:10:34.623-04:002010-04-04T15:10:34.623-04:00In most cases, like this one, the 'right' ...In most cases, like this one, the 'right' choice is clear the moment you are true to yourself. The question here is whether we have the courage and dispassion to choose the 'right' course.kdhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12694407171334438936noreply@blogger.com