A most timely find for this time of year - vacation options for single parents . I have experienced some of the same challenges that this column talks about. Feeling slightly odd to be the solitary single parent family in a " sea of two parent families " or at least bigger families with relatives standing in for the absent parent. If J and I travel somewhere it feels as if we merely teleported ourselves while still sitting on the living room couch. The scenery is new and different but nothing else is - something remains missing from the vacation. Unless we have friends traveling with us, the time off does not have the rejuvenating effect I look for. I used to wonder if that was just me seeking what I don't have at the cost of not appreciating the many blessings that I do have. I would chide myself for not being able to live in the present and enjoy what the moment has to offer and get frustrated at not being able to quite do so. It is very comforting to see that I am not ...
crossings as in traversals, contradictions, counterpoints of the heart though often not..