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Planned Meander

Reading about this word that describes travel, intent and wandering in a holistic way was fun. It helped me understand how I travel

In a literal sense, coddiwomple can describe a physical journey or expedition. It embodies the idea of setting off on an adventure without a fixed itinerary, allowing oneself to be guided by curiosity and spontaneity. This could involve exploring unfamiliar places, taking detours, or simply meandering through uncharted territory.

Metaphorically, coddiwomple can extend beyond physical travel and encompass various aspects of life. It can represent a mindset of embracing uncertainty and embracing the unexpected. It encourages individuals to step outside their comfort zones, embrace new experiences, and approach life with a sense of open-mindedness and flexibility.

My vacations definitely follow the literal sense of the word. It usually starts with thinking about the general sense of what I would want to experience on the trip and booking the round-trip to the major airport. The rest is an outline at best of the places we will try to see. On my better planned vacations, I have booked places to stay for the first few nights. Everything is flexible after that except the return date. So adventures happen along the way and we end up going places that were never part of the plan and decide to drop things that were on the list. 

I don't believe I have taken this to the metaphorical level yet. Judging by how much I get out of my coddiwomple vacations, chances are I will gain a great deal by extending its remit to the rest of my life.

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