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Right Music

We were walking down the boardwalk on the beach a few weekends ago when the words from Dust In the Wind caught our attention. An artist was sitting by one of the benches, his canvases on display - the music came from his small boom-box. It was a full moon, the wakes were breaking on the beach an endless cascade on white foam. It had been years since I had last heard the song - can't remember when or where. In the current setting, the words seemed very poignant. We walked past the artist and his paintings, the words of the song fading, the roar of the the ocean taking over. An hour later, we passed by the same place once again. 

This time we were headed back to our car and a light rain had cleared more of the boardwalk. The artist had placed all the paintings under his makeshift tent along with the boom-box. This time we heard a track from The Dark Side of the Moon. Again, the music seemed just perfect for the ambience. It made me wonder about how he chose the music and if all who heard it felt like he had picked up on the mood wonderfully or maybe he was closer to our age and the kind of music he chose to play happened to resonate with people of a certain vintage. If that was the target demographic of buyers of his artwork, he was definitely doing it right. 

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