Greek Dinner

Met H for dinner after a decade a few days ago and got to experience that same inner brightness that I had always known her for. No amount of adversity can take that away from her and she has experienced more than most people ever will. She was married to the love of her life but the man suffered from an illness that decayed him slowly and there were any number of medical emergencies over the forty years of their marriage.

 When she finally lost him she would only talk about how well-loved she had always been and how he always had surprises that warmed her heart. I have stayed in touch with H over the years because she shows me how to age with grace, turn adversity into a source of energy to pour into people and things you love. I learn just by watching her and hope that in time learn to be something close to the person she is.

The evening will now be a memory of H across the table at the Greek restaurant at across the street from my hotel. Her laugh as the waiter encouraged us to try a liqueur he uses to glaze his onions to make them smell of licorice. It is not a smell you would imagine to be compatible with onion but it works really well. Such is also the the lessons learned from observing how H has lived her life - things that you cannot imagine would work out well for a person end up being ideal. You just need to have her amazing spirit